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Set Yourself Free: 20 Kick-Butt Songs To Listen To For A Confidence Boost


Set Yourself Free: 20 Kick-Butt Songs To Listen To For A Confidence Boost


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Music has always had a beautiful way of speaking to our hearts in ways that other forms of media can't. It's just so hard to explain that amazing connection you have with some songs! So if you're at a low right now and feel like you're struggling to get your confidence back, no matter what the situation is, we've got 20 uplifting songs to help you get back on your feet again. Enjoy!

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1. "Confident" by Demi Lovato

What's more fitting for a confident-boosting song than "Confident"? Demi Lovato does everything she can to empower listeners with this upbeat, catchy tune. The lyrics are incredibly meaningful and leave behind a great message that makes you feel like your confidence can skyrocket with just one listen. 

File:Demi Lovato Crop.jpgGarry Knight from Bromley, Kent, England on Wikimedia

2. "Fight Song" by Rachel Platten

If you were feeling down just a few moments ago, we can say for a fact that "Fight Song" by Rachel Platten is the ultimate pick-yourself-back-up song. It's all about believing in yourself, loving who you are, and fighting back against all odds. 

File:Rachel Platten, Bush Hall, London (2).jpgDrew de F Fawkes on Wikimedia

3. "Stronger (What Doesn't Kill You)" by Kelly Clarkson

Leave it to Kelly Clarkson to create the best bangers to sing your heart out to. Whenever you feel like you're in a rut, this song will immediately make you feel better. The lyrics are empowering and it's all focused about building yourself back up. After all, you're your own best friend!

File:Kelly Clarkson 57th Presidential Inauguration-cropped2b.jpgKathy Reesey on Wikimedia

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4. "Born This Way" by Lady Gaga

There's no pop idol out there that's a better role model than Lady Gaga. Unafraid to embrace who she really is for millions of people to see, she encourages you to do the same with her hit song "Born This Way." Regardless of where you're from, what gender you are, or who you love, her goal is to tell you you're perfect just the way you are.

File:Lady Gaga at Joe Biden's inauguration (cropped).jpgCarlos M. Vazquez II on Wikimedia

5. "Roar" by Katy Perry

Katy Perry wants you to remember that there's no better feeling than being free and becoming your very own hero in her most popular song, "Roar". This song quickly became an anthem for all the broken-hearted when it released, and to this day, it still is. It's the perfect song to belt your heart out to, making you immediately feel better. 

File:Katy Perry DNC July 2016 (cropped3) restored.jpgAli Shaker/VOA on Wikimedia

6. "Scars To Your Beautiful" by Alessia Cara

It's normal to feel like you're not enough sometimes, especially in our society that emphasizes all our flaws and imperfections. So when you're feeling alone, put on "Scars To Your Beautiful" by Alessia Cara to remind yourself of how beautiful you are. She reminds us that we need to love ourselves and put ourselves first no matter what. 

File:Alessia Cara at WFUV.jpgWFUV Public Radio on Wikimedia

7. "The Climb" by Miley Cyrus

Whether you want to say this song is by Miley Cyrus or Hannah Montana, it doesn't matter. All that matters is this song is an absolute mood booster! When you feel like belting your heart out about fighting against challenges and working hard to reach your goal, this is the one to blast on speaker. 

File:Miley Cyrus Primavera19 -226 (48986293772) (cropped).jpgRaphael Pour-Hashemi on Wikimedia

8. "Unstoppable" by Sia

It's all in the name. "Unstoppable" by Sia quickly became one of the most viral songs on Tik Tok and for good reason. Combined with her amazing vocals, she sings about being an unstoppable force that fights against all challenges and hurdles. It's about building tough skin and realizing that yes, you can do this. 

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9. "Sorry Not Sorry" by Demi Lovato

Going through a breakup and can't see the light at the end of the tunnel? Demi Lovato's got you covered. While you might be hurting right now, this song is all about making you work to be your best self. You will grow from this experience and become even more amazing on the other side. Just take it from Demi in this song - you'll be feeling the best you've ever felt when you get back up on your feet again. 

File:Demi Lovato 2009 (Cropped).jpgAngela George at https://www.flickr.com/photos/sharongraphics/ on Wikimedia

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10. "Don't Stop Me Now" by Queen

If you're simply looking to have a good time, "Don't Stop Me Now" by Queen is the ultimate feel-good anthem. No one can ruin your buzz when you've got this one blasting on speaker! We guarantee you'll be feeling energetic and confident by the time this song ends. 

File:Queen A Night At The Opera (1975 Elektra publicity photo 02).jpgKoh Hasebe; Distributed by Elektra Records on Wikimedia

11. "So What" by P!nk

Life can feel so serious sometimes when you're in a relationship, which is why P!nk wants to remind you so what? This iconic nostalgic song is all about reminding yourself that you don't need anyone other than yourself to be happy. You're your own rockstar!

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12. "Fighter" by Christina Aguilera

There's nothing like some powerful and strong vocals by Christina Aguilera to really get you up on your feet and moving. "Fighter" is all about loving yourself, becoming the independent person that you are, and learning to be a fighter against all odds. Is there anything more uplifting than that?

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13. "Man! I Feel Like A Woman!" by Shania Twain

If you need a girls anthem we've got the perfect one to get you feeling confident about yourself. "Man! I Feel Like A Woman!" continues to be one of Shania Twain's greatest hits, showing girls how beautiful it is to embrace your own womanhood. So go out, have fun, be yourself, and feel confident!

File:ShaniaTwainJune2011.jpgKatherine Brock on Wikimedia

14. "Beautiful" by Christina Aguilera

Of course we couldn't leave out Christina Aguilera's other hit song, "Beautiful." With deep and encouraging lyrics, this amazing song tells listeners to ignore the haters and only trust yourself. Words can cut deep, but realizing and recognizing your own worth is the most important thing at the end of the day. Because everyone on this planet truly is beautiful. 

File:Christina Aguilera 2012.jpgHispanic Lifestyle on Wikimedia

15. "Who Says" by Selena Gomez

At a young age, Selena Gomez was already acting as a great role model by releasing "Who Says," a song about falling in love with yourself. It's easy to have self-doubts in this critical world, but once again, Selena reminds us we're our own biggest obstacles sometimes - because who said we're not perfect the way we are?

File:Selena Gomez UNICEF 3, 2012 (cropped).jpgJoella Marano from Manhattan, NYC on Wikimedia

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16. "Love Myself" by Hailee Steinfeld

This song's pretty self-explanatory, don't you think? There's just two words you need to know: love myself. You are the one person that controls your own happiness and don't forget it. No one else can do it for you!

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17. "Firework" by Katy Perry

A nostalgic classic from 2000s queen Katy Perry, "Firework" is all about learning to stop holding back and letting your true self shine. It can be difficult being who you are sometimes, but Katy wants you to forget about all those fears. Become a firework and let your colors shine. 

File:Katy Perry - Part Of Me Australian Premiere - June 2012 (3).jpgLiam Mendes on Wikimedia

18. "Shake It Off" by Taylor Swift

Sometimes, you just have to take it easy! There's no song that'll help you get back on your feet faster than Taylor Swift's "Shake It Off." We can get too wrapped up in life at times, so this song is a friendly reminder to just keep moving and don't let the bad things bring you down. It's a fun and danceable song that'll have you up and at it in no time. 

File:Taylor Swift at the Golden Globes 2024 (Enhanced, cropped) 2.jpgiHeartRadioCA on Wikimedia

19. "I Ain't Worried" by OneRepublic

A friendly message that you should live your life and not be consumed by worry, OneRepublic's catchy song "I Ain't Worried" is the perfect example of a carefree song. Not only does the beat echo that, the lyrics can instantly make you feel more at ease too. 

File:OneRepublic in Bangkok 2017.jpgSry85 on Wikimedia

20. "It's My Life" by No Doubt

For something a bit funkier, singing "It's My Life" by No Doubt at the top of your lungs is an instant gamechanger. Whatever sad feelings you were experiencing just now? Gone. Your confidence will be right back to normal when you repeatedly sing out the words "It's My Life," because you know what? It is. You're the only one that gets to control it. 

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