Finding Your Place at Work
Think you're the perfect coworker? Sure, everything might seem hunky dory with all of your colleagues, but there is always the sneaking chance that you could be doing something to tick them off. Sharing a workspace means balancing your needs with everyone else’s. What feels friendly to you might irritate others in ways you never would have realized. Awareness is the key to avoiding those slip-ups, so let's look at 10 ways you may have been annoying your coworkers all along.
1. Cutting People Off Mid-Sentence
Nothing frustrates colleagues faster than being interrupted. Don’t make conversation a race. Give others room to finish their thoughts. It’s not about who speaks the most; it’s about everyone feeling heard. Respect builds stronger teams, and that starts with listening.
2. Leaving Shared Spaces a Mess
No one enjoys walking into a break room that looks like a disaster zone. A coffee spill or leftover crumbs might seem harmless, but it signals a lack of consideration. Clean up after yourself. It’s a small effort that goes a long way, personally and professionally.
3. Talking Too Loud
Be it a booming laugh or an overly animated phone call, noise travels. Shared workspaces do best on balance, and constant disruptions throw everyone off. Use an inside voice, or make use of a quieter area. Your coworkers will thank you for it.
4. Hogging Shared Tools
Waiting for the office printer while someone prints 50 pages of personal vacation photos is super annoying. Shared resources are for everyone, not just for one person’s endless needs. Be mindful of others, and keep your time with shared tools brief and efficient.
5. Sending Endless Emails
Flooding inboxes with unnecessary messages—especially with “reply all”—creates unnecessary frustration. Not every update needs an email. Sometimes, a quick chat or a group update works better. Thoughtful communication respects your coworkers’ time and keeps workflows running smoothly.
6. Ignoring Virtual Meeting Etiquette
Forgetting to mute your mic or showing up unprepared isn’t just careless—it’s disruptive. Virtual meetings work best when everyone pays attention and minimizes distractions. Come prepared, stay engaged, and mute when needed.
7. Oversharing Personal Stories
Work is not a group chat to unpack every detail of your life. Sharing too much can make colleagues uncomfortable or shift the focus away from work. Keep conversations light and professional—save the heavy topics for friends who know you better.
8. Interrupting Focus
Popping by someone’s desk to chat when they’re clearly focused is a fast way to annoy. Respect their time by checking if it’s a good moment to talk. A quick “Are you free?” before diving in makes all the difference.
9. Gossiping
Discussing someone’s personal life or work habits behind their back damages team dynamics. Gossip breaks trust and makes people wary of sharing ideas. Choose direct communication over rumors—it builds a positive work environment.
10. Coming to Work Sick
Sniffling through a meeting or sneezing near shared equipment puts everyone at risk. Illness spreads quickly in close quarters. Take advantage of remote work options or sick leave if you’re feeling unwell. Healthy teams are productive teams.